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5 Places To Meet A Hot Valentine’s Date

5 Places To Meet A Hot Valentine’s Date
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Affectionately known as the month of love, February honours St Valentine’s Day and encourages couples everywhere to enjoy a little romance. If you’re single, you don’t have to feel left out this year. There are plenty of places where you can meet a potential Valentine’s date, if you’re interested in flirting and dating. So, here are our top 5 places to meet a hot Valentine’s date!

On the free to join mobile dating site You’vePulled you can instantly connect with singles all over the UK. It’s the perfect place to practice your flirting techniques and seduction skills, in time for a hot Valentine’s date.

To maximise your chances of being lucky in love, it’s a good idea to also take advantage of other local places where you can meet a sexy stranger for an exciting casual hookup or a romantic night out on the town…

Check Out Local Events

If you’re not keen on making a Valentine’s Day connection the old fashioned way, by hanging out in bars and nightclubs, there are plenty of alternative pick up venues in your local area.

At speed dating and networking events everyone is open to chatting, flirting and getting to know each other. You can approach new people with confidence and potentially build good friendships. You could also end up with your ideal match and a blossoming relationship!

Check out what’s going on in your area, and attend all the social events that are Singles-only. If there’s not a great deal happening in your neck of the woods, it’s worth venturing to a neighbouring town that has good amenities and entertainment options. You could click with a hot single in a place that celebrates the local Arts scene, at a comedy club, or while watching your favourite band playing a gig.

It’s also a good idea to research local hobby groups to find out where like-minded people go to hang out.

Go Shopping

If you’re not a technophobe, there’s always a chance that you could find a love match whilst browsing the latest software, gadgets, and other geeky stuff in the local shopping mall. Don’t be shy about asking the hottest guy in the store for advice or a recommendation.

If you’re a bookworm, the local bookstore is definitely worth checking out, if you’re looking to meet an eligible single that shares your love of literature.

Your future hot handy man could also be lurking right under your nose in the local DIY and home maintenance store.

Sign Up For A Class

Signing up for an adult class, in a subject that interests you, is s smart way to connect with singles near you.

Besides learning something new, you’ll also have an opportunity to socialise and make connections with interesting people who share your interests. You could find a hot study buddy at a writer’s or photography workshop, at cooking or mixology classes, or while learning a foreign language. If you sign up for an art class, you could even get lucky and meet a hot model that poses in the buff.

Join A Health Club

Boost your self-confidence and body image, by joining a local health club or gym. You’ll have no trouble spotting the eligible hotties hanging out in the weights room or using the cardio machines. You can even book one-on-one time with a sexy personal trainer who’s keen to give you their tips.

Make Virtual Connections

If you live somewhere remote or there’s just not much scope for hooking up with a hot Valentine’s date in your local area, don’t despair. It’s super easy to make virtual connections with singles online.

On the mobile dating platform You’vePulled you can join and search for free, send flirty DMs or text messages, and chat on the phone for hours with friendly singles nationwide. You can even make arrangements to meet someone you fancy on a romantic Valentine’s date!

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How To Be A 1st Class Date

Happy Dating coupleConnecting with thousands of people, just like you, is fun and free to do on our easy to use You’vePulled mobile dating site. Once you’ve messaged, texted, flirted, and phone chatted with a sexy single that you have a crush on, you’ll obviously want to arrange a date.

On a hot first date, the impression that you make should definitely be memorable and enticing, if you want to be in with a chance of progressing to date number 2.

Follow our practical tips, to instantly upgrade your dating style, from average to 1st class…

Set An Intention

While you’re grooming and getting ready to finally meet your POI, on a first date, it really helps to think about how you would like the encounter to pan out.

Visualise the two of you relaxing and enjoying each other’s company, with conversation that flows effortlessly and naturally. Set the intention to be present and attentive, and to enjoy a fun and memorable experience. Trust that the outcome of the date is highly favourable.

Be Flirtatious

Body language plays a huge part in how another person perceives you. Greet your date with a smile and a friendly approach. There will be plenty of time for flirtatious play, as you build a rapport and establish a connection.

Pay attention to your date’s body language, and mirror it discreetly. Smile and laugh when they do, and use eye contact to make an intense nonverbal statement. Lean in slightly to let your date know that you’re interested. If they respond with a gentle, playful touch on your arm, it’s a sign that they’re interested in you too!

Be Interested & Interesting

The more interested you appear in your date, the more interested in you they will be. Talk about a variety of date-friendly topics, and use humour to make your date feel relaxed and at ease. Engage them in conversation that is enthralling and entertaining. If you know a subject/topic well, it’s fine to share your knowledge. But avoid being boastful, and be mindful that you don’t dominate the entire conversation.

When listening to your date talk about their interests, pay attention and ask thoughtful questions that demonstrate that you’re interested in what they have to say.

Show Off Good Manners

While appearance and attitude certainly go a long way towards impressing and influencing your date’s opinion of you, good manners are equally important.

First off, ensure that you practice good personal hygiene and grooming habits. It’s essential that you’re respectful at all times. Avoid fiddling with your clothes or hair, or using exaggerated hand gestures when you’re conversing. Talking with your mouth full, picking your nose, and being rude and crude, are unacceptable and instant turn-offs.

Old-school chivalry, like holding a door open for your date, walking on the outside of the pavement, and standing up when a woman stands, are still widely considered to be charming habits that create a lasting, and positive, first impression.

Give Sincere Compliments

Women love to feel good about their appearance. Paying your date sincere compliments about the way she looks, or the way she acts, will make her feel special. Telling her that she has an intelligent mind and good conversation skills will earn you double brownie points!

Be Genuine

The best and most effective way of making a great first impression, and creating a connection with someone that you want to get to know, is to simply be yourself. Be friendly and approachable, and be prepared to let your guard down a little. Just be you, and let your personality and charm shine through so that they dazzle and impress your date.

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Valentine’s Day Date Ideas During Lockdown

Closeup of couple making heart shape with handsWith Valentine’s Day approaching, most of us have gotten used to being stuck indoors a lot of the time as mandated lockdowns have become the norm, face to face dating is currently a thing of the past, and whether you’re single or in a relationship, dating has now taken on a completely different form.

Virtual dating has become the new normal, with more people than ever using online dating and phone or text chat lines to find The One.

The first date, however, has become completely different. Rather than meeting for a coffee, going out to dinner, or visiting the cinema, couples are having to become more creative in their dating life, with technology being the focus.

So, with that in mind, how can you begin or continue dating someone without being able to meet up? Below we have listed a few ideas that might give you some inspiration.

 

Have a romantic candlelit dinner.

Yes, you can still do this! With the wonders of video calls and things like Zoom (which is more private as you don’t have to reveal your number), you can cook simultaneously, or order a takeaway and sit and eat together. Romance doesn’t need to be dead!

 

Play games together.

Not being able to be in the same room, doesn’t mean things have to be boring. There are plenty of online-based games you can play together. Most games consoles have online capabilities so you can play together, or alternatively there are things like Geoguessr, where you can play against each other and see who can work out where you are in the world first.

 

Watch a movie or TV show you both love.

Seeing as the cinemas are closed, you can make your own one at home. Schedule a time, choose what to watch and watch it at the same time. You could either video call at the same time so you can talk about it, or message each other whilst watching or at the end to see what you both thought about it. Everyone is watching more TV and movies than ever before, but there must be something left you can watch together!

 

Write each other letters.

If you’d like technology to take a back seat for a while, you could write to each other. It’s a great way to get your feelings out and you could also send each other little gifts if you’d like.

It’s much more personal than reading a typed message on a screen, whether you’re either getting to know each other, or have known each other ages, it gives a much more personal touch to communication.

 

Chat on the phone.

Most people get so used to texting or messaging on multiple apps, they don’t seem to connect with each other through the phone anymore.

Schedule a time when you’re both free, to just sit and chat to each other. It’s a great change to give each other your full attention.

If you’ve not met yet, it’s a great way to see if you’ve got chemistry, or if you’ve been together a while, it gives you a chance to really connect with each other if you feel like you might have lost that whilst being apart for so long.

 

If you’ve yet to meet someone you’d like to date this Valentine’s Day, get yourself on You’ve Pulled and get chatting to singles from all over the UK on our great phone chat or mobile dating services today!

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Date Ideas Whilst Social Distancing

Dating hasn’t been the most important thing on people’s minds the last few months, but there’s no need to stop dating entirely!

It’s still possible to have dates, they’re just going to be a little different to normal due to social distancing.

We’ve listed a few date ideas for you to try, below.

Video call date

Whether it’s your first date or your twenty first, video chat is a great way to have a proper conversation. You’ll be able to see each other, either for the first time or just because you haven’t seen each other in a while. Some apps also have built in games you can play to add a bit of extra fun.

Watch a movie together

Find a movie or a TV series that you both want to see and watch it together. You’ll have someone to discuss it with during or after which is always fun to do as you unpick it and see different things. You can get some snacks and snuggle up on the sofa to make it like a “date night”.

Take a walk together

As restrictions are being gradually lifted, we can meet friends outside. So, whilst keeping a 2m distance, you could go for a walk in your local park or along the seafront if you’re on the coast. It’ll give you a chance to meet up if you never have, or see each other if it’s been a long time.

Cook together

Plan what you’re both going to have for dinner and cook it ‘together’. You can give each other tips or one could teach the other their recipe. You could video chat at the same time to see what each other is doing. You could even eat it together and make it romantic!

Have a ‘naughty’ phone call!

We are all missing the intimacy that social distancing is forcing upon us, but there is a way you can keep a little bit alive – phone sex! Whether you’ve done it loads of times or never tried it before, now is a great time to do it. Just make sure you’re both in the mood!

If you’re currently single and want to give these things a try, there are loads of single guys and girls from all over the UK chatting on You’ve Pulled so join today!

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Cheap and Easy Last Minute Valentine’s Day Date Ideas

Rather than going out for a fancy dinner, we think these date ideas are great for something a little different, especially if you’re on a budget!

Have a movie marathon.
When you think of Valentine’s Day you think of classic rom-coms but you can adapt to what you both like! Watch some of your favourite films, or catch some newer ones, go wherever the mood takes you! You can snuggle up in bed or on the sofa with blankets and snacks for a romantic evening together.

Cook dinner together.
You don’t need to cook anything fancy, find out what meal you both love and cook it together. It’s a great chance to bond and show off your cooking skills and also learn new ones.

Take a romantic walk and/or have a picnic.
No matter where you live there are likely to be lovely walks to go on, be it along the promenade of the seafront, in a park or in the countryside. Weather permitting you could even incorporate a picnic. Take some snacks and some wine and a blanket and sit somewhere with a nice view and enjoy each other’s company.

Have an indoor picnic.
More than likely the weather in February isn’t going to be ideal for an outdoor picnic, especially in the evening if you’re both working so arrange an indoor picnic instead! Put a blanket on the living room floor, get some finger food and some wine and just enjoy being with each other. There’s less pressure than having a dinner together and not much preparation required.

Organise a game night.
This could either be on a console or with traditional board games – or both! You can challenge each other in 2-player games on your console or play some traditional board games together. You could even combine this with forfeits for the loser!

Visit a museum or art gallery.
If you both enjoy similar things, why not visit a local museum or art gallery? There are all sorts of different types so there’s likely to be something you can both enjoy. A lot of these are also free so it doesn’t need to cost much. There’ll be plenty of talking points so if you’re in a newer relationship it’ll give you a chance to learn about each other as well as whatever you’re looking at.

Go Geocaching.
Get a geocaching app and go on an adventure together!
Navigate your way around the local area and find cleverly hidden containers and sign the log book.
There might be things to trade or just things to look at but either way you can have fun hunting together.

Share a home spa day.
You don’t need to go to an actual spa in order to relax. Light some candles, put on some relaxing music and trade massages. This can be a really romantic way to connect with your partner with the added bonus of being totally relaxed at the end of it.

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Our Top 5 First Date Ideas In Liverpool

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Looking for date ideas in Liverpool? Give one of these top places a try!

Alma De Cuba
Alma De Cuba is situated in what used to be St. Peter’s Church which first opened in 1788 so you can expect it to be spectacular.
As well as the fanciful food and drink on offer, there are regular events that take place throughout the week.
Tuesday and Thursday evenings play host to live music, Sundays include a live gospel choir singing you through your brunch.
If you’re looking for something a bit more lively, then head over on a Friday or Saturday night after 11pm as they bring out the carnival atmosphere with Samba dancers and excellent resident DJs.
Seel Street, Liverpool, L1 4BH

World Museum
For something a little different, head over to the World Museum which is full of fascinating displays from Egyptian mummies to a Planetarium. Check out the dinosaur casts, the live creepy crawlies in Bug House or get your hands on over 20,000 of the most unusual items in the Clore Natural History Centre.
There’s a coffee shop on the ground floor that serves hot and cold food and a café on the fifth floor which offers a wide range of food which you can eat whilst enjoying the views across the city. There is also a gift shop where you can grab a souvenir to remember your date!
William Brown Street, Liverpool, L3 8EN

Mersey Ferry
Taking the ferry across the Mersey is absolutely something you have to do in Liverpool so why not take a date with you?!
Most cruises are around 50 minutes long, but you get to see Liverpool from a completely different view point.
With stops at Pier Head, Seacombe and Woodside, you can  either disembark and check out what’s on offer, or carry on and do the full 50 minute tour.
If you get off at Pier Head, you can head over to Albert Dock and check out the Beatles Story, if you get off at Seacombe, you can check out Spaceport  – a star-filled attraction with the whole galaxy under one roof and if you get off at Woodside, there’s the U-boat Story  where you can discover what life was like on board a German World War II Submarine.
Also try the Dazzle Ferry for something a little different!
Boarding is available at Woodside, Pier Head or Seacombe Ferry Terminals

81Ltd
Known as Liverpool’s most secret bar, 81Ltd is an invite only venue based on a modern day speakeasy.
Your invitation is sent to you by text or email where you will receive a code for the front door of the bar – without it you’re not getting in!
There’s a huge selection of cocktails to choose from as well as a number of beers if that’s more your style.
Invites are for people ‘in the know’. Head over to their website for more details and opening times.
Seel St, Liverpool, Merseyside L1 4BB

FACT
There are so many things to do at Fact you won’t know where to start!
Choose from a range of exhibitions and workshops, or for a more traditional date there’s always the cinema!
There’s also a selection of food and drink available from either ‘The Garden’, ‘The Bar’ or ‘The Kiosk’, so if you want to chill out and get to know each other over a cup of coffee or a bite to eat then there’s something for everyone.
Become a member with FACT and you’ll get discounts throughout the venue.
88 Wood Street, Liverpool, L1 4DQ

 

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Top 5 First Date Ideas In Newcastle

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Looking for somewhere different for a first date in Newcastle? Try one of our top 5 places!

1. As You Like It
The wide range of food and drink on offer should entice the fussiest of people and its opulent décor and great ambience will have you coming back time and again.
Spread out over three floors, there’s plenty of room for a large number of guests or if the weather permits there’s also a garden terrace to enjoy the warm summer evenings.
Check out their calendar before you go as there is often live music – and with the likes of Beverley Knight having performed there, you’re sure to impress your date.
Open until 2am on Fridays and Saturdays, there’s plenty of time to stay for a meal or pop in for a few drinks and with their delicious list of cocktails, you won’t want to leave!
Archbold Terrace, Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear, NE2 1DB

2. Lane 7
It’s not just about the bowling at Lane 7, as they take pride in the excellent food in their 75 seat restaurant. The menu is heavily focused on American dining with offerings such as hot dogs and burgers, grilled cheese sandwiches, corn dogs and their famous smoked baby back ribs, smoked in their own smokery.
The drinks menu is an interesting mix of cocktails and milkshakes – which come “hard” (with alcohol) or “soft” (without alcohol), so whether you come for lunch or a night out, they have everything covered.
To keep you busy either before or after you’ve eaten, there are 10 bowling lanes, 4 American pool tables, two ping pong tables, two beer pong tables (yes, you read that right!) and a private karaoke room to choose from so you certainly won’t be bored!
There are also a wide range of ever changing activities on offer in their basement including mini golf, big screens and short tennis.
80-90 Saint James’ Boulevard, Newcastle upon Tyne, NE1 4BN

3. River Escapes
Based right in the city centre, on Newcastle Quayside next to Gateshead Millennium Bridge, River Escapes offers three different sight-seeing cruises (all with commentary) where you can relax with a drink and/or snack from the on-board bar.
If you are looking for something a bit more lively, then the party nights might be more your style. There are four types of party nights; two include a buffet and one, called a Barbeque Cruise, which speaks for itself!
The party nights set sail from the quayside, travel under the Millennium Bridge, right out to the mouth of the river where you can catch the spectacular views out on deck or party the night away at the disco inside.
So whether you’re looking for a quiet date where you can see the sights of Newcastle or you’re looking for something a bit more upbeat, River Escapes has something for everyone… If you like boats that is!
East Quayside Pontoon, Newcastle Quayside, Newcastle upon Tyne, NE1 3DX

4. Exit Newcastle
For a totally unusual and quirky date, head over to Exit, a live game situation where groups of 2 or more are locked in a series of rooms with the objective of escaping within an hour.
To find your way out you’ll need to complete a variety of challenges and follow a number of clues that direct you through the game which if completed correctly and quickly enough will allow you to find the exit!
This is a date that will make you work together as a team giving you the perfect opportunity to get to know each other and find out how compatible you are.
Games are changed every so often so if you enjoy yourself, keep an eye out to see when new games are added.
67a Westgate Road, Newcastle, NE1 1SG

5. Sage
Located in Gateshead Quays, on the south bank of the river Tyne, Sage is one of the North’s best concert venues and centre for musical education.
Hosting concerts from a wide range of internationally famous artists and musicians, from the likes of Badly Drawn Boy to Gladys Knight, from Lord of the Dance to Diversity, there’s sure to be something you want to see!
Sage also plays host to a number of music workshops so why not learn a new instrument or be a part of a choir for a day – jump in and try something new!
Saint Mary’s Square, Gateshead Quays, Gateshead NE8 2JR

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Festival Season – Summer of Love!

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Festival season is finally here and there’s nothing like great live music playing out, as the sun sets on a warm summer’s day to bring two people together.

Check out our pick of some of the best festivals happening around the UK and take someone on a date they’ll remember this summer!

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5 Great Places To Meet Singles In Essex

Top 5 places to meet singles in Essex
Top 5 places to meet singles in Essex

Looking for somewhere new to meet other singles in Essex? Give these top 5 places a go!

1. Faces
Known as the most exclusive nightclub in Essex, it certainly won’t disappoint. With its chic ambience and opulent décor, Faces attracts a variety of celebrity clientele, from TV stars to footballers.
You will be spoilt for choice with 6 bars and 2 rooms of music with VIP tables available, so if you’re looking for a sophisticated venue to meet some new people whilst dancing to some of the most popular tunes then head over to Faces for a great night out.
458-462 Cranbrook Road, Gants Hill, Ilford, Essex, IG2 6LE

2. Dance Parties Plus
Set in a number of locations across Essex, Dance Parties Plus organise fantastic party nights for over 30s in stunning venues.
Most parties are held on Friday nights but keep an eye out for the occasional Saturday party if those are more suited to you.
If you like to dance to excellent music in stunning venues and want to meet other singles whilst doing so, then one of these lavish parties is the place to go.
Various locations

3. Essex Wildlife Trust
The Essex Wildlife Trust holds regular Volunteer Work Parties which offer superb opportunities to meet new people whilst helping the local wildlife.
These events are more suited to people who have a bit of extra time on their hands as they generally run on weekdays.
Chafford Gorges Nature Park, Grays, Essex, RM16 6RG

4. Riverside Ice & Leisure Centre
There are a number of activities to take part in at Riverside, including ice skating clubs, swimming clubs and diving clubs, so if you’re looking to meet people and take up a new hobby then look no further.
Riverside also includes a gym and offers a range of fitness classes suitable for all abilities.
Clubs are held on many evenings throughout the week so why not try a few!
Victoria Road, Chelmsford, Essex, CM1 1FG

5. Hike Essex
Enjoy walking and want to meet likeminded people? Hike Essex is an established walking group that organise walks every weekend as well as regular socials and weekends away.
They are part of the Ramblers Association so if you join you can attend any of the events.
Midweek evening walks are also available between spring and autumn, creating something to suit everyone. So put on your walking shoes and join them this weekend!
Various locations

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5 best places to go an a date in Brighton!

Where are 5 of the best places for a date in Brighton? We’ve compiled a list for you so you can give them a go!

 

1. Royal Pavilion

Visit the Royal Pavilion and and take a tour around it’s  expansive hallways, unbelievable dining halls while viewing the grandest pieces of Art from the 1800’s. Once your tour has finished why not grab a bite to eat at the Royal Pavilion Tea Room and take a seat on the balcony overlooking the beautiful Pavilion Gardens.

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2.Brighton Pier

Check out the Brighton Pier and enjoy a bag of Doughnuts or candy floss whilst checking out some of the many rides that it has to offer. If your an extreme thrill seeker then check out some of the roller coasters and brace yourselves for the outstanding views from the tops of the rides, however if rides aren’t your thing then why not get involved in the side stool games and win your date a cuddly toy!

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3. Krater Comedy Club at the Komedia 

This event only runs from Thursday to Sunday but does offer a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere on which to go on a date. The event invites some of the most talented comedians from around the world to come and perform. Just make sure that you don’t sit in the front row!

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4. Brighton Wheel & Sea Life Center

If you are an animal lover why not check out The Sea Life Center and experience one of Brighton’s most popular tourist attractions. If you want to take your dates breathe away then take her on the Brighton Wheel and experience some of the most breathtaking view over the sea and rooftops of Brighton!

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5. The Beach 

Take your date on a romantic stroll along the promenade and check out some of the wonderful cafes overlooking the sea.Or you could just grab a couple of deck chairs and sit on the beach whilst sipping on a glass of wine, what could be more romantic than that!

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