A growing number of young men are finally realising that it’s a total myth that middle-aged women aren’t interested in sex. On You’vePulled – the mobile dating site where you can chat, flirt and click with likeminded singles from all over the UK – you can easily explore a connection with a sexy cougar or a horny MILF. Keep reading to find out why younger guys love older women.
Dating older women is an exciting experience that’s guaranteed to exceed your expectations. If you’re curious about exploring an age-gap relationship, here are many reasons why you should be chatting, texting and flirting with hot women of a certain age…
Age-gap sex appeal
Once you reach the ripe age of 45, you’re officially considered to be ‘mature’. In an attempt to feel young at heart, some older guys decide to only date women half their age. Although attractive and alluring in appearance, most younger women typically lack the life experience and emotional depth, as well as sexual confidence, that a woman in her prime possesses.
Older women exude an air of mystery that isn’t always easy to quantify. They generally have a higher level of self-sufficiency that makes them more emotionally and financially stable than their younger competition. Independence and self-confidence also gives the mature lady added sex appeal.
It’s not at all surprising that dating a cougar is a common fantasy for many younger guys. A sexually confident older woman knows what she wants, and how to get it. She’s not shy about exploring her sensual side, and doesn’t have inhibitions about her body or sexual preferences. She’s also likely to be experienced in the art of flirting and seduction.
Because she’s older than you, there’s a good chance that the older woman you’re interested in dating has had more sex partners. This means that she can teach you a thing or two about how to handle a woman between the sheets. In her company, you can learn a great deal about yourself, and discover what really turns you on.
No strings attached benefits
If you’re looking for a casual relationship, an older woman is definitely worth considering as your next lover. A mature woman who has been through a divorce or has recently split from a long-term partner isn’t in a rush to make a serious commitment. She’s currently having fun experimenting and exploring the benefits of single life, and is potentially open to dating with no strings attached.
An age-gap casual hook up with an older woman can be an erotic encounter that can help you master new flirting techniques, and improve your sexual foreplay and performance.
Sexual empowerment
When the older partner in a male-female age-gap couple is a woman, some people tend to unfairly disapprove. Women of a certain age that are actively dating are commonly referred to as predatory ‘cougars’, while their younger male lovers get away without the tagging of any derogatory labels.
Younger men who have a thing for older ladies often fantasise about being dominated by a sexual goddess. A mature dominatrix is a powerful woman who can bring any man to his knees. She can make your secret fantasy become reality, and leave you wanting more.
The woman who knows herself, and has a taste for younger men, is a sexually empowered individual who deserves to be celebrated for being the wiser benefactor in an age-gap romantic relationship. She’s not the type to accept the slang term ‘cougar’ as anything other than a compliment.
While double standard society may have you believing that a cougar’s relationship is a sign of desperation, the truth is this connection is sparked from pure lust and desire. In today’s feminist culture, a sexually liberated and empowered woman in her prime really can date whomever she wants to without worrying about judgment and social stigma.
Age-gap relationship satisfaction
According to a recent survey, a woman who is more than 10 years older than her male partner is more satisfied with and committed to their relationship, than females with older lovers, or similar age couples.
An age-gap relationship offers a better balance in power dynamics and equality for both partners, and has every chance of going the distance.
Having a mature lover can help a man navigate life’s problems, and teach him how to be more confident about handling his emotions. He’s also likely to become a better lover in the process.
If you’re tempted by all of the positives of dating a woman who is older than you, check out the sexy cougars and MILFs in your area today and send them an icebreaker message on You’vePulled!